Chicken and Sausage Gumbo

I’ve been trying to master gumbo for a while now. And now that I’m focusing on rice for my girls as that seems to be a key ingredient most days to get them to eat, it’s a good staple to have, as it’s easy to make if time consuming.

I made a modified version of Shea’s grandmother’s and a recipe I found online. The biggest drawback to Shea’s mawmaw’s recipe is it is intended to make 4 gallons, scaling it down doesn’t work real well considering that there is no water quantity. Ours ended up too thick.

So today I used the following recipe.

Chicken and Turkey Sausage Gumbo
Tags: Southern, chicken, turkey, rice

Turkey Sausage
1 lb ground turkey
Mince garlic
Sugar
Oregano
Crushed fennel seed
Pepper
Salt

Season to taste and mix well.

Gumbo
4T butter
4T flour
6c water (was too thin 5c next time)
Celery salt
Pepper
Dash caynne pepper
Dried roasted bell peppers & garlic
Garlic powder
Onion powder
Salt
Bay leaf
1 lb turkey sausage
1 large chicken breast, cubed
2T tomato paste

Brown turkey sausage (needs to be drained really well). Put butter and flour in large pot and brown (medium to dark brown roux). Add seasonings to taste, Add meat, water, tomato paste and bring to a rapid boil. Boil for 5 mins, then simmer for 2 hours.

Serve with rice.

The parts in italics are the changes for next go around. Seasoning wise I think we did good. So next version will be a bit thinner and less oily. So here’s to hoping it goes just as good next time.

It makes about 6 servings with 6 cups and lots of rice.

Panic attack

Yesterday was not a good day for the family, mostly the girls, but not a good day in general considering what we all did. Kathleen decided it was a good idea to drink Children’s Tylenol. We’d been giving it to the girls about once a day for the past couple of nights because they’d been feeling overly warm and it was cold related so I wasn’t extremely careful about putting it up up. I put it as far back on the bathroom counter in my room behind a whole bunch of other things. And Kathleen used the garbage can to climb up there and get it. At 11am I found them with the empty bottle.

With an hour of hemming and hawing about whether or not to take them to the ER I called the Posion Control Center. They needed to know Kathleen’s weight, and we have no working scales. I estimated it for them and since I am not sure what it was and how much was actually in the bottle I decided to take them both to the ER. At 12pm I called Shea and told him and he met me in the ER.

We heard lots of stories about kids doing something similar. Shea ate a whole bottle of chewable vitamins, his youngest brother ate a whole bottle of children’s asprin. The doctor who treated the girls, son opened at foil container of the unopened cough syrup bottle. And one of the nurses daughter ate a box of Ex-lax.

After 5 or so hours in the ER the girls were cleared to go home. They were forced to drink charcoal which was an ordeal unto itself. They took blood twice from them and they both did very well in terms of that.

Kathleen did share with her sister, but Kathleen had most of it. Their discharge papers clearly indicated who had the brunt of the overdose. Samantha’s said non-toxic, Kathleen’s didn’t say it so it was likely to have been toxic. But the doctor wasn’t overly worried about it and as long as their second blood test didn’t show dramatic increase in acetaminaphen in their blood stream they could go home. So now we wait and watch to make sure Kathleen is okay.

Today’s goal is to make sure all the medicine in the house is put up and way out of reach. Along with cleaning the house up more. While I’m still going to worry for a while I’m pretty sure things will be okay, it’s just a matter of telling my Mommy brain that lol.

Opening Doors

2 years and four months old and Samantha has finally grasped the knowledge of how to open a door. She’s been banging them, jiggling them for what seems like forever, at lest since she could reach them.

Yesterday I shut the door to the bathroom and Samantha soon followed me in. Later that night we put her to bed and she walked out of her room.

So now we must insure that all the deadbolts and latches are locked on the outside doors or we’ll have the same problem we did with Kathleen – minus letting the dog out the front door.

So onto new challenges for the little one… potty training – maybe? We are going to try that again this week.

Kitchen Table

Since Shea and I have been together we have never owned a kitchen/dinning room table, ever. That’s 9 years of eating wherever. With Diamond gone, we now have a dilemma. The girls have become overly use to the dog cleaning up after them. Which I didn’t mind so much until Diamond stopped eating the cheerios that kept making it to the floor. I don’t blame her for not eating them as I’m sure it got real old real fast. But now with out our living vaccuum, we have a problem. The girls still throw their food on the floor.

So since getting another dog is pretty much out of the question at this moment, we bought a kitchen table. We’ve been using it as much as we possibly can and the girls are adapting well to it. I think the stint at my parents house with a family dinner helped out with that. Kathleen is pretty much a jabber jaw at the table, but it’s really nice to be a family even is Sammi isn’t quite so ready to sit down and eat with us. But she’s going through a phase anyway with her eating habits.

The table is in the middle of our living room right near the front door, it’s the only place we can really put it. It’s going to make cleaning a hassle since I use to push all the toys and stuff into that area, but hopefully that once I get things manageable after having been sick a week things will be better in both my kitchen and in my living room. Less food on the floor = less mess to clean up. And the more likely I won’t have to hunt anything more than sippie cups that have migrated around the house.

Vacation Rundown

We are back from our vacation. It was alot of fun to be home for a while. It was great to not have to worry about anything as well. I’ll start at the beginning.

We left at 8pm July 1 after Shea took half a day and slept what he could until about 6 or 7pm. The girls were thrilled with the DVD player and I don’t really remember what they watched to start with, my best guess is Phineas and Ferb or Cars. We drove through the night and got to Roanoke, VA at around noon, where we were able to check in. We crashed and rested until about 6pm when we started to settle in for bed.

Samantha had a horrible night, she wouldn’t go to sleep so it in turn kept us all awake until about 10pm when the sun was finally down. Kathleen ended up sleeping on the floor, which is pretty typical of my eldest daughter. We got up an moving and were on our way north around 6am. We reached my parents empty house about 6pm after stopping at Pizza Hut to eat.

I took the girls over to Grams house to tell her we were here after I unlocked the front door with my house key. She was suppose to let us in but I got in with my key. Shea started putting everything in the house. We went over to Uncle Albs & Aunt Barb house so they could introduce us to Ebony and Mica – my parents dogs. They came over about half hour after we arrived. Ebony took to everyone real well and Mica was overly shy. But the next morning after we woke up the dogs were more than happy we were there with them, even Mica was all waggles now.

We spent the fourth of July down to my Aunt Sylv’s house. It was too cold for the girls (and me) to go swimming but I think everyone had a good time. My parents came down there when they got home and the girls ran and practically jumped into their arms. Everyone was really excited to see each other!

The following day was Sunday, which me and the girls (and Mom) spent the day at Grams house playing May I. Or that was the plan, but we instead moved the card game to my parents house so that the girls would be more comfortable. That evening we went to Walmart. Why you ask? Well we realized after coming up from the heat that it was a bit too cold in the morning. I had only brought the girls one pair of socks each and Shea didn’t pack any pants, so we went and picked up those few things and a few additional groceries we needed for the next few days. Mom and Aunt Sylv helped plan the following weekends menu plan as Gram was having lots of company up. I cooked two of those days for the whole family and cooked dinner for the immediate family the rest of the time except those days we ate at Grams house during part of our vacation.

On Wednesday my Brother and his girlfriend Stacey showed up after having been to Michigan where Stacey’s family lives. We hung out talked and got to meet Maggie, their dog.

At this point things started getting blurred. We ate dinner on, my dad made omelets for breakfast. We ventured down to Aunt Sylv’s house for an hour or so for the girls to go swimming. While the water was FREEZING the girls both had a blast.

Kathleen started out in her life vest but it kept filipping her on her back (it’s suppose to do that) we put her in a tube and she went all over the pool. It took Samantha a bit but she did eventually get in as long as I held on to her at all times.

The next day Mig made breakfast with love. He shredded his potatoes by hand using a knife to cut each piece up. To accompany his hash browns he made french toast and sausage. We went down to Jenn’s house to see the chickens and goats (and jump on the trampoline). The girls enjoyed both parts. Kathleen got a goat to eat from her hand and petted a chicken. Samantha liked the dirt in the goat pen, thankfully the goats don’t relieve themselves in that particular area. Mom’s camera crapped out there so we don’t have a lot of pics as Mom would have liked.

I’m probably confusing days so chronology may be off but the events are still sound lol.

Thrusday night we waited for Aunt Eileen and Uncle Al to show up and we all went over for a little visit then came back to relax.

Friday night was “Family Night”. Now you ask what this might mean if you don’t know the Talbot Family. Basically it’s when all of Grams children, and their children and their children get together at Gram’s dinky little trailer. This is generally only seen at holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. But when Aunt Eileen or Uncle Jim come down (or any of the other out of state family come in to stay) they all get together. Usually it’s 40+ people, but be cause so many people showed up it was more like 50+ people. Gram ordered 10 pizza’s and there was only about 1 pie left over in total. I’m not sure what-else made it with dinner, tossed salad perhaps but pizza was the main dish. All in all it was good to see everyone. I got to meet some “family” I have only heard about and not really met, and Shea got to meet more too I think.

Saturday we went to Cooperstown to play Minature Golf. Dad won. (He was score keeper – and he’s a golfer.) Kathleen had fun hitting the ball. Samantha not so much, she really didn’t enjoy herself much except for playing in the dirt/rocks. That night I made spaghetti and meatballs.

Sunday night Suzie and Andy (and the boys) showed up but we didn’t stay long, Samantha was already home after having had a bad time while we were playing cards with Aunt Eileen – Mig played too. Mom and Aunt Sylv were trying to take pictures of each other’s cards to “cheat”. We all had a good time.

Mig and Stacey left Monday morning and Mom and Kathleen helped the Talbot clan put in hay. Kathleen had fun despite falling into Aunt Barb’s fish pond right after I got done telling her don’t lean over like that or you’ll fall in. Like my words prompted it in she fell. Thankfully she didn’t go under as she landed on Aunt’ Barb’s lilly pad pots. She was upset, but she later told Grandpa she went swimming with the fish.

Not much really happened eventful after that. We spent a good majority of the Wednesday the 15th outside with the girls. I got a slight sunburn on my thighs and Kathleen has a great tan. We left my parents house around 8pm (after waiting for a call back from Shea’s parents to tell us what was going on with Diamond.)

We drove all night long and reached Virginia Beach, Va around 7am. We ate breakfast at Denny’s then everyone but me slept in the van while we waited for 11am check in when we were able to get into our room. We waited around for Shea and Sydney (and Gabriel) to show up.

Shea got dropped off at the hotel and while we waited for Sydney and the baby to show up we went swimming. The girls pretty much played on the steps and Kathleen tried to go under water which scares me to death now. I am avoiding baths with her for the time being hoping the desire to swim under water fades just a little. Samantha got into the water of her own accord, she even got in up to her neck of her own violation.

Sydney showed up with our grandson and we all chatted and took pictures and had a decent time. They left around 8pm which was good the girls were getting sleepy and they had to be up early. Shea is going to Iraq at the end of the month so he had lots of things to do these last few weeks.

We drove to Atlanta, GA and stopped there for the night. While there we picked up a nice flat rock from the motel hillside to use as Diamond’s head stone. (Side note: I’ve purchased Georgia Clay red for the base of the rock color to pain). We left around 7am and got home about 1pm give or take.

All in all it was a very good trip. I miss home, and I miss my family but I am glad to be here with my things in what we call home. We are not back to the grind stone and things are back to usual minus one family member. I do miss her so much.

I will have pictures soon, I’m missing a few yet so I don’t want to post any. You can check out other family members pics if you can’t wait that long.

Back from Vacation Woes

This is a little bit of a lot of things, mostly about our vacation but not all of it.

I’ll bore you with the not vacation stuff first since it’s on my mind and I’ll make a vacation post in a bit. With out the money sitting in the bank that we’d saved for our vacation I now have the OMG we have no fall back money situation. The problem we are falling behind in bills, everyone is sick and that means Shea can’t go to work and that means no full pay check next week. I really need to do something here this is getting to me badly.

If I get a job, it has to pay enough to pay for gas, child care for two children (which will run us about $100/kid) and enough money left over to make the job worth while. So basically that leaves out jobs like full time clerical and the likes, cause I would have to bring home at least $306(net) per week just to cover those expenses – approximately: $7.64/hour.

I can freelance, but that isn’t guaranteed. I have however applied at Heritage again, so we’ll see if I get in this time. That is at least pretty reliable income but may not be enough to get us out of the whole. I am considering killing our cable again, it won’t help us immediately but it can help us in the long run. But that limits what I can do to add money to the table, with out cable I am basically just a stay at home mom, and I can’t do any freelancing. So it’s a hard choice. We already have the basic TV package, killing just the TV would bring the bill down 50 dollars and change.

I really don’t know what to do at this point. I’m in a holding pattern until Heritage gets back to me, but I really am not sure what to expect, they turned me down last time, this time I’m not expecting any good results. I’m hesitant to do php again there while they pay is large, the time between checks is always long because they are large projects.

Oh well, life goes on, we’ll figure something out I’m sure. The bank is opening now I need to hit it before doing what grocery shopping I can do this week. I’ll post vacation post when I get back.

Wish us luck!

It’s been a rough night

Yesterday was not a good day for many reasons. The biggest reason being that Diamond passed away. She’s been with Shea’s folks while we are on vacation. Late last week his mom called and told us Diamond wasn’t doing well. We chalked it up her moping around and missing us. She was fine the next day and then yesterday she was lethargic and they were in the process of taking her to the vet ER which was 2 hours away as it was after hours. At around 8pm EST his dad called and told us that she didn’t make it.

So needless to say I’ve been having a very bad night – on top of leaving my parents house I have to deal with the death of my beloved pet. And so many things run through my mind that might have happened but we will really never know what happened.

We left my parents about 8pm last night and drove through the night and got to Virginia Beach at about 7am. So right now we are sitting in the parking lot of the motel we are staying in cause we can’t check in for another 2 hours at least – possibly 3. It sucks. Thankfully the girls have the dvd player and the free wifi reaches out to the van so I can at least do something – even if it’s depressing.

I cryied several times last night before I got a few winks of shut eye. I can’t help it Diamond was such a part of our lives. Shea’s parents are going to bury her in their yard somewhere I can easily get to so I can put a headstone or something. I know I will at least visit it. My biggest fear is that Diamond thought we’d abandoned her and thought we didn’t love her anymore. I feel horrible about things for my inlaws. They had to deal with it all while we were away.

The only plus side is that the girls didn’t see her go down hill. But what do you tell a 3 year old about the loss of her beloved pet? We are at a loss of words. I really don’t know what to tell her when she asks where Diamond is. I’m so sorry we lost her like this and its killing me.

We probably won’t be getting another pet for a while. Maybe we can get fish, maybe. But then again we probably won’t do that either. We’ll see. I have too much to think about now that new pets are far from my mind.

As a side note we had a great vacation, I’ll post more about that later, right now got a few other things to do.