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Christmas and Computers

Saturday, December 26th, 2009

Well it has been an eventful few days. On Monday my computer completely died. It’s been interesting not having on. I did finally get my laptop fixed. I had tried to install norton internet security and the avg kept erroring on uninstall so it broke the whole computer. Thankfully nothing important is on my laptop so I just reinstalled it. However when I do that it doesn’t have the ethernet or wireless driver so I didn’t get around to downloading all that until today. So my laptop is now functioning and I can keep up with my email and the likes with out bugging Shea.

It took three days to get the loan approved for my new computer. It’s a dell, it’s much better than what I had: Intel® Core™ 2 Quad Q8300 (4MB L2, 2.5GHz, 1333FSB), Genuine Windows® 7 Home Premium, 64bit, English

It has 6G of RAM and a 500GB hard drive. I bought the latest version of Office with it and a 3 year warrenty. The only bad thing is that I won’t get it till the middle of January. It really kinda sucks but I’ll live.

Christmas was good. The girls made out like champs.

Kathleen and Samantha got a tent to share, a tinkerbell sleeping bag each, a princess dress up trunk from Grams T. Grandma and Grandpa got the girls a leapster 2, 1 game and a battery charger with 4 rechargable batteries, each. Santa gave them a buzz lightyear stuff toy and blanket, and a princess basketball, panties, m&ms, a toy story flash light and a little pet shop figure. I started a new tradition with the girls gifts from us. Something they need, “want”, a game, read, and wear.

They needed more sheets for their bed so they both got a mickey sheet set. They got their “want” which isn’t necessarily something they wanted but something I thought they’d like – Sammi got a large truck carrier with about 20 little cars inside it, Kathleen got some playdoh and a white board drawing and lettering set. They got the Elefun game to share (catching butterflies in a net). They each got a colloring/activity book to “read”. And a red “christmas” tunic and legging set they can wear after christmas still.

They got from Shea’s side of the family different things. Sammi got a talking truck she’s afraid of because it moves by itself, some Barbi dvds, an outfit and a princess drawing book and a bath set. Kathleen got a dance video game to play on the tv, a simple “simon” game, an outfit and a bath set.

Mom and Dad also sent the girls a collection of books and coloring books that they love.

We also had the first of Kathleen’s birthday parties. We had cake and icecream and she opened up some presents. She got a fairy popup tent, an arizona fleece sweat shirt, a tinkerbell blanket and some drawing books from us. She enjoyed it.

I got the new super mario brothers game for wii and Shea will probably be getting a smoker for christmas.

All in all we had a good day and I think everyone enjoyed opening presnets with both my parents and Shea’s. It was a good day.

Christmas Dinner

Saturday, December 19th, 2009

Christmas is fast approaching. Next Friday is the big day, and one in which Kathleen cannot wait for. She is constantly talking about Santa, I think next year we’ll have to start writing letters to Santa.

Tomorrow is the family party, which hopefully will be a good time.

We had Christmas dinner tonight, the Saturday before Christmas. As is typical for here, I have no idea what we are doing on Christmas day, so in order to get the left overs that come with Christmas, I baked us a half a ham and made some mashed potatoes, and we finished off the biscuits I made for breakfast this morning. It was yummy, but my tatos were missing something and I’m not quit sure what it was.

Thus far our Christmas plans consist of opening presents when the girls get up while we web cam in my parents so they can watch the girls. Mam and Pawpaw might make it for present time, last Christmas we had to wake the girls up as they arrived before they woke up lol. I expect it to be the same this year or at least close.

I hope to have some cinnamon buns and hot cocco and coffee made while we open presents. I’d have egg nog but neither of us like it so there is no point in wasting that holiday tradition.

Tomorrow is a busy day, I have to make some smokey mac and cheese in the afternoon before we head over to the party. I will probably have to go to the store even though I had hoped I wouldn’t have to. I ran out of salt, which is a rare thing and I’m pretty sure I’ll need it tomorrow too. I should also pick up some drinks as I’m not sure if anyone will bring anything, so I want to make sure we are covered at least.

3.5 days left

Monday, December 14th, 2009

There are only 3.5 days left of Shea working. Then he gets two weeks off. It’s pretty cool that he gets off the time but he’s only paid for like 3/4 of it. So it hurts but it’s nice.

End of the year sucks. It brings with it so many worries and so many financial concerns. The house land taxes are due, the car tag is due, have to file taxes. So very not a fun time of the year.

The holidays are always good though. My only concern is that we aren’t going to get to see Shea, Sydney and Gabriel for more than the 20 minutes we did last week. It’s really a heart breaker, and it really did break the girl’s hearts they didn’t get to spend more time with them. I can only hope they’ll stop by again sometime before Shea has to ship out again. He’s leaving in five days so the odds are not in our favor.

I really do hope they understand that they are part of our family and that we really do want to spend time with them. We want to know what is going on with their lives. That we aren’t going to make judgment on what they do, where they go or who they do it with, we just want to be included in their lives. Not to find out the backwards way, like they are sneaking around behind our backs. We just want to be involved.

I feel really bad that Shea’s not going to be able to see much of his grandson as it is.

All I can do is wait and hope things turn out for the better. Nothing more we really can do. As with all things in our lives.

Visitors!

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

I didn’t manage to get a post out yesterday was a rather busy day. Shea got rained out so we spent most of the day together. And I got some of the things that needed doing done, but I didn’t manage a post.

But we had a late surprise. Last night around 6pm we had a knock on our door. It was Shea, Sydney and Gabriel. We didn’t get to see them long before we were off to go meet Shea’s parents – they were in Ocean Springs going to their youngest grandson’s first concert. Shea and his brood went with them so we didn’t get to spend much time with them. Which was a disappointment to us all. I feel the worst for Kathleen she was very heartbroken she didn’t get to see her brother and Sydney and Gabe anymore.

Hopefully we’ll be able to see them again. He’s going back to Iraq on the 19th. I will cross my fingers and hope they make it back down.

Fall is so nice

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Fall is such a nice time of year. It’s the beginning of so many things to do. First we had the Craft Fair, which we usually only go for the kettle corn, shaved ice and the inflatable bouncers for the girls. Shea picks up a new rock here and there and we might see something that the girls like, but as with most things it the food we go for.

Then it’s the County Fair. This year was fun. We age some really good gumbo and then the girls went on the rides. First up was the bumblee bees that go up and down and round and round. Kathleen rode those. Then on to the ferris wheel. Kathleen rode with her Daddy. She loved it. She could see everything and tried to stand up and look over the side. I’m glad I wasn’t watching.

Then we went to the merry-go-round where Daddy rode with the girls, both girls got on and Samantha didn’t even scream. That was her start to the rides. We then rode the slide, Kathleen went down by herself and Samantha and I went down together. Kathleen had to scoot the rest of the way down the slide she just didn’t get far enough on the flat part for her liking. Then they rode the little trucks that go round in circle. I was impressed this year, Sammi actually rode the rides.

Next on our fall activities is of course Halloween. I really hope it doesn’t rain tonight as tonight is the city’s Trunk or Treat. The kids get to go trick or treating on del mas (I think that’s the roads name). They block it off and people set up cars and booths and the kids trick or treat from there. Quick and easy and safe way to get candy.

Tomorrow we will do some house to house, mostly going up to Mam and Pawpaw’s house and maybe a few other houses in the area that want to see the girls.

After that is Thanksgiving, the Wilkerson Family Christmas and then Christmas. Fall is the start to my favorite and depressing time of year. I very much miss being home at this time of the year. But it gets better the older the girls get and the more things I can do with them. This year I hope to have them help make Christmas decoration, as I am once again going with paper decorations so that I don’t lose or ruin the ones I have, besides if the girls play with them it won’t be so bad. Paper chains, maybe some snowmen, and some poinsettias and some candy canes. If I get ambitious I might try to find a craft book for that. I know I had one from one of my Sister In Laws when she was giving her son’s old grown out of toys away. I put it up so the girls couldn’t get it and I know they found it. Now to find it again lol. It had some neat crafts in it.

Labor Day & Pets

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

I can’t say how much I miss being home when family gathering holiday’s roll around. My day was uneventful, I didn’t even plan to barbaque. Not that my grill would work if I wanted to anyway. I haven’t grilled all summer long thanks to not having the money to refill the gas tank for the grill.

I’m having a hard time with missing Diamond. I try not to let the girls see how much it hurts. I’m not worrying about doing something wrong with her, I just miss her to death. Shea doesn’t want another one yet. And I understand why. We can’t afford a puppy right now anyway. To many added expenses.

I have suggested fish to him but he and I both agree that it’s difficult finding a place with the girls in their I must get into everything stage. I suggested a cat. My initial thought was that it would be cheaper than a dog but they too need licensing and vet visits after the initial kitten stage. The biggest thing there though is it might help with the mice population in the winter time. Dunno how they do it but every winter we get little critters in our attic and house, at least since Katrina anyway I don’t recall having them before then.

I’m not sure if we’ll have a pet anytime soon. Maybe once at the beginning of next year after a tax refund comes in. I did get one bit of news from Shea that in March if they strike, he plans to go to work through the strike. That was awesome news as we really couldn’t afford it other wise. And it’ll leave our tax refund for things that are more important like getting me a new computer, hopefully Windows 7 will be available I really don’t want to have to upgrade and/or get Vista at all lol, but we’ll see. I’d love to get a MAC but don’t think that will happen. Besides I couldn’t play WoW on it, don’t think WoW installs on the MAC, much less all my design software. We’ll see.

Birthdays

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

Birthdays aren’t that glorious for Shea and I. Yesterday I made Shea a desktop wallpaper of our family with recent pictures of him holding Gabriel and of the girls and my parents and his. It’s nice he liked it. And I made him peanut butter cookies – his favorite.

I won’t do anything for mine but we’ll see what Shea does. I did however by Disney Grooves Dance Dance Revolution with the money I got for my birthday. We have our Wii and we hardly use it. Mostly because I can’t sit with the girls in here and play it with out them messing the controllers up and the like. But this, I think we can mange to deal well with. My mom made some princess mats for them like the Wii controller for DDR, so that’ll give them a mat they can play with with me. I also have a candy dispenser for each of them that looks like the Wii remote, so we are good to go there too. Hopefully the girls will enjoy it as much as I do. And maybe we’ll even let them play for real lol. But I don’t think they’d understand the idea just yet other than jumping around on the mat. But here’s to hoping. It should be fun and I should get exercise while playing while entertaining the girls. It will arrive around the 31st, they didn’t have any in stock at Walmart so site to store it is.

Kitchen Table

Sunday, July 26th, 2009

Since Shea and I have been together we have never owned a kitchen/dinning room table, ever. That’s 9 years of eating wherever. With Diamond gone, we now have a dilemma. The girls have become overly use to the dog cleaning up after them. Which I didn’t mind so much until Diamond stopped eating the cheerios that kept making it to the floor. I don’t blame her for not eating them as I’m sure it got real old real fast. But now with out our living vaccuum, we have a problem. The girls still throw their food on the floor.

So since getting another dog is pretty much out of the question at this moment, we bought a kitchen table. We’ve been using it as much as we possibly can and the girls are adapting well to it. I think the stint at my parents house with a family dinner helped out with that. Kathleen is pretty much a jabber jaw at the table, but it’s really nice to be a family even is Sammi isn’t quite so ready to sit down and eat with us. But she’s going through a phase anyway with her eating habits.

The table is in the middle of our living room right near the front door, it’s the only place we can really put it. It’s going to make cleaning a hassle since I use to push all the toys and stuff into that area, but hopefully that once I get things manageable after having been sick a week things will be better in both my kitchen and in my living room. Less food on the floor = less mess to clean up. And the more likely I won’t have to hunt anything more than sippie cups that have migrated around the house.

Vacation Rundown

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

We are back from our vacation. It was alot of fun to be home for a while. It was great to not have to worry about anything as well. I’ll start at the beginning.

We left at 8pm July 1 after Shea took half a day and slept what he could until about 6 or 7pm. The girls were thrilled with the DVD player and I don’t really remember what they watched to start with, my best guess is Phineas and Ferb or Cars. We drove through the night and got to Roanoke, VA at around noon, where we were able to check in. We crashed and rested until about 6pm when we started to settle in for bed.

Samantha had a horrible night, she wouldn’t go to sleep so it in turn kept us all awake until about 10pm when the sun was finally down. Kathleen ended up sleeping on the floor, which is pretty typical of my eldest daughter. We got up an moving and were on our way north around 6am. We reached my parents empty house about 6pm after stopping at Pizza Hut to eat.

I took the girls over to Grams house to tell her we were here after I unlocked the front door with my house key. She was suppose to let us in but I got in with my key. Shea started putting everything in the house. We went over to Uncle Albs & Aunt Barb house so they could introduce us to Ebony and Mica – my parents dogs. They came over about half hour after we arrived. Ebony took to everyone real well and Mica was overly shy. But the next morning after we woke up the dogs were more than happy we were there with them, even Mica was all waggles now.

We spent the fourth of July down to my Aunt Sylv’s house. It was too cold for the girls (and me) to go swimming but I think everyone had a good time. My parents came down there when they got home and the girls ran and practically jumped into their arms. Everyone was really excited to see each other!

The following day was Sunday, which me and the girls (and Mom) spent the day at Grams house playing May I. Or that was the plan, but we instead moved the card game to my parents house so that the girls would be more comfortable. That evening we went to Walmart. Why you ask? Well we realized after coming up from the heat that it was a bit too cold in the morning. I had only brought the girls one pair of socks each and Shea didn’t pack any pants, so we went and picked up those few things and a few additional groceries we needed for the next few days. Mom and Aunt Sylv helped plan the following weekends menu plan as Gram was having lots of company up. I cooked two of those days for the whole family and cooked dinner for the immediate family the rest of the time except those days we ate at Grams house during part of our vacation.

On Wednesday my Brother and his girlfriend Stacey showed up after having been to Michigan where Stacey’s family lives. We hung out talked and got to meet Maggie, their dog.

At this point things started getting blurred. We ate dinner on, my dad made omelets for breakfast. We ventured down to Aunt Sylv’s house for an hour or so for the girls to go swimming. While the water was FREEZING the girls both had a blast.

Kathleen started out in her life vest but it kept filipping her on her back (it’s suppose to do that) we put her in a tube and she went all over the pool. It took Samantha a bit but she did eventually get in as long as I held on to her at all times.

The next day Mig made breakfast with love. He shredded his potatoes by hand using a knife to cut each piece up. To accompany his hash browns he made french toast and sausage. We went down to Jenn’s house to see the chickens and goats (and jump on the trampoline). The girls enjoyed both parts. Kathleen got a goat to eat from her hand and petted a chicken. Samantha liked the dirt in the goat pen, thankfully the goats don’t relieve themselves in that particular area. Mom’s camera crapped out there so we don’t have a lot of pics as Mom would have liked.

I’m probably confusing days so chronology may be off but the events are still sound lol.

Thrusday night we waited for Aunt Eileen and Uncle Al to show up and we all went over for a little visit then came back to relax.

Friday night was “Family Night”. Now you ask what this might mean if you don’t know the Talbot Family. Basically it’s when all of Grams children, and their children and their children get together at Gram’s dinky little trailer. This is generally only seen at holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. But when Aunt Eileen or Uncle Jim come down (or any of the other out of state family come in to stay) they all get together. Usually it’s 40+ people, but be cause so many people showed up it was more like 50+ people. Gram ordered 10 pizza’s and there was only about 1 pie left over in total. I’m not sure what-else made it with dinner, tossed salad perhaps but pizza was the main dish. All in all it was good to see everyone. I got to meet some “family” I have only heard about and not really met, and Shea got to meet more too I think.

Saturday we went to Cooperstown to play Minature Golf. Dad won. (He was score keeper – and he’s a golfer.) Kathleen had fun hitting the ball. Samantha not so much, she really didn’t enjoy herself much except for playing in the dirt/rocks. That night I made spaghetti and meatballs.

Sunday night Suzie and Andy (and the boys) showed up but we didn’t stay long, Samantha was already home after having had a bad time while we were playing cards with Aunt Eileen – Mig played too. Mom and Aunt Sylv were trying to take pictures of each other’s cards to “cheat”. We all had a good time.

Mig and Stacey left Monday morning and Mom and Kathleen helped the Talbot clan put in hay. Kathleen had fun despite falling into Aunt Barb’s fish pond right after I got done telling her don’t lean over like that or you’ll fall in. Like my words prompted it in she fell. Thankfully she didn’t go under as she landed on Aunt’ Barb’s lilly pad pots. She was upset, but she later told Grandpa she went swimming with the fish.

Not much really happened eventful after that. We spent a good majority of the Wednesday the 15th outside with the girls. I got a slight sunburn on my thighs and Kathleen has a great tan. We left my parents house around 8pm (after waiting for a call back from Shea’s parents to tell us what was going on with Diamond.)

We drove all night long and reached Virginia Beach, Va around 7am. We ate breakfast at Denny’s then everyone but me slept in the van while we waited for 11am check in when we were able to get into our room. We waited around for Shea and Sydney (and Gabriel) to show up.

Shea got dropped off at the hotel and while we waited for Sydney and the baby to show up we went swimming. The girls pretty much played on the steps and Kathleen tried to go under water which scares me to death now. I am avoiding baths with her for the time being hoping the desire to swim under water fades just a little. Samantha got into the water of her own accord, she even got in up to her neck of her own violation.

Sydney showed up with our grandson and we all chatted and took pictures and had a decent time. They left around 8pm which was good the girls were getting sleepy and they had to be up early. Shea is going to Iraq at the end of the month so he had lots of things to do these last few weeks.

We drove to Atlanta, GA and stopped there for the night. While there we picked up a nice flat rock from the motel hillside to use as Diamond’s head stone. (Side note: I’ve purchased Georgia Clay red for the base of the rock color to pain). We left around 7am and got home about 1pm give or take.

All in all it was a very good trip. I miss home, and I miss my family but I am glad to be here with my things in what we call home. We are not back to the grind stone and things are back to usual minus one family member. I do miss her so much.

I will have pictures soon, I’m missing a few yet so I don’t want to post any. You can check out other family members pics if you can’t wait that long.

It’s been a rough night

Thursday, July 16th, 2009

Yesterday was not a good day for many reasons. The biggest reason being that Diamond passed away. She’s been with Shea’s folks while we are on vacation. Late last week his mom called and told us Diamond wasn’t doing well. We chalked it up her moping around and missing us. She was fine the next day and then yesterday she was lethargic and they were in the process of taking her to the vet ER which was 2 hours away as it was after hours. At around 8pm EST his dad called and told us that she didn’t make it.

So needless to say I’ve been having a very bad night – on top of leaving my parents house I have to deal with the death of my beloved pet. And so many things run through my mind that might have happened but we will really never know what happened.

We left my parents about 8pm last night and drove through the night and got to Virginia Beach at about 7am. So right now we are sitting in the parking lot of the motel we are staying in cause we can’t check in for another 2 hours at least – possibly 3. It sucks. Thankfully the girls have the dvd player and the free wifi reaches out to the van so I can at least do something – even if it’s depressing.

I cryied several times last night before I got a few winks of shut eye. I can’t help it Diamond was such a part of our lives. Shea’s parents are going to bury her in their yard somewhere I can easily get to so I can put a headstone or something. I know I will at least visit it. My biggest fear is that Diamond thought we’d abandoned her and thought we didn’t love her anymore. I feel horrible about things for my inlaws. They had to deal with it all while we were away.

The only plus side is that the girls didn’t see her go down hill. But what do you tell a 3 year old about the loss of her beloved pet? We are at a loss of words. I really don’t know what to tell her when she asks where Diamond is. I’m so sorry we lost her like this and its killing me.

We probably won’t be getting another pet for a while. Maybe we can get fish, maybe. But then again we probably won’t do that either. We’ll see. I have too much to think about now that new pets are far from my mind.

As a side note we had a great vacation, I’ll post more about that later, right now got a few other things to do.