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Christmas and Computers

Saturday, December 26th, 2009

Well it has been an eventful few days. On Monday my computer completely died. It’s been interesting not having on. I did finally get my laptop fixed. I had tried to install norton internet security and the avg kept erroring on uninstall so it broke the whole computer. Thankfully nothing important is on my laptop so I just reinstalled it. However when I do that it doesn’t have the ethernet or wireless driver so I didn’t get around to downloading all that until today. So my laptop is now functioning and I can keep up with my email and the likes with out bugging Shea.

It took three days to get the loan approved for my new computer. It’s a dell, it’s much better than what I had: Intel® Core™ 2 Quad Q8300 (4MB L2, 2.5GHz, 1333FSB), Genuine Windows® 7 Home Premium, 64bit, English

It has 6G of RAM and a 500GB hard drive. I bought the latest version of Office with it and a 3 year warrenty. The only bad thing is that I won’t get it till the middle of January. It really kinda sucks but I’ll live.

Christmas was good. The girls made out like champs.

Kathleen and Samantha got a tent to share, a tinkerbell sleeping bag each, a princess dress up trunk from Grams T. Grandma and Grandpa got the girls a leapster 2, 1 game and a battery charger with 4 rechargable batteries, each. Santa gave them a buzz lightyear stuff toy and blanket, and a princess basketball, panties, m&ms, a toy story flash light and a little pet shop figure. I started a new tradition with the girls gifts from us. Something they need, “want”, a game, read, and wear.

They needed more sheets for their bed so they both got a mickey sheet set. They got their “want” which isn’t necessarily something they wanted but something I thought they’d like – Sammi got a large truck carrier with about 20 little cars inside it, Kathleen got some playdoh and a white board drawing and lettering set. They got the Elefun game to share (catching butterflies in a net). They each got a colloring/activity book to “read”. And a red “christmas” tunic and legging set they can wear after christmas still.

They got from Shea’s side of the family different things. Sammi got a talking truck she’s afraid of because it moves by itself, some Barbi dvds, an outfit and a princess drawing book and a bath set. Kathleen got a dance video game to play on the tv, a simple “simon” game, an outfit and a bath set.

Mom and Dad also sent the girls a collection of books and coloring books that they love.

We also had the first of Kathleen’s birthday parties. We had cake and icecream and she opened up some presents. She got a fairy popup tent, an arizona fleece sweat shirt, a tinkerbell blanket and some drawing books from us. She enjoyed it.

I got the new super mario brothers game for wii and Shea will probably be getting a smoker for christmas.

All in all we had a good day and I think everyone enjoyed opening presnets with both my parents and Shea’s. It was a good day.

Christmas Dinner

Saturday, December 19th, 2009

Christmas is fast approaching. Next Friday is the big day, and one in which Kathleen cannot wait for. She is constantly talking about Santa, I think next year we’ll have to start writing letters to Santa.

Tomorrow is the family party, which hopefully will be a good time.

We had Christmas dinner tonight, the Saturday before Christmas. As is typical for here, I have no idea what we are doing on Christmas day, so in order to get the left overs that come with Christmas, I baked us a half a ham and made some mashed potatoes, and we finished off the biscuits I made for breakfast this morning. It was yummy, but my tatos were missing something and I’m not quit sure what it was.

Thus far our Christmas plans consist of opening presents when the girls get up while we web cam in my parents so they can watch the girls. Mam and Pawpaw might make it for present time, last Christmas we had to wake the girls up as they arrived before they woke up lol. I expect it to be the same this year or at least close.

I hope to have some cinnamon buns and hot cocco and coffee made while we open presents. I’d have egg nog but neither of us like it so there is no point in wasting that holiday tradition.

Tomorrow is a busy day, I have to make some smokey mac and cheese in the afternoon before we head over to the party. I will probably have to go to the store even though I had hoped I wouldn’t have to. I ran out of salt, which is a rare thing and I’m pretty sure I’ll need it tomorrow too. I should also pick up some drinks as I’m not sure if anyone will bring anything, so I want to make sure we are covered at least.

3.5 days left

Monday, December 14th, 2009

There are only 3.5 days left of Shea working. Then he gets two weeks off. It’s pretty cool that he gets off the time but he’s only paid for like 3/4 of it. So it hurts but it’s nice.

End of the year sucks. It brings with it so many worries and so many financial concerns. The house land taxes are due, the car tag is due, have to file taxes. So very not a fun time of the year.

The holidays are always good though. My only concern is that we aren’t going to get to see Shea, Sydney and Gabriel for more than the 20 minutes we did last week. It’s really a heart breaker, and it really did break the girl’s hearts they didn’t get to spend more time with them. I can only hope they’ll stop by again sometime before Shea has to ship out again. He’s leaving in five days so the odds are not in our favor.

I really do hope they understand that they are part of our family and that we really do want to spend time with them. We want to know what is going on with their lives. That we aren’t going to make judgment on what they do, where they go or who they do it with, we just want to be included in their lives. Not to find out the backwards way, like they are sneaking around behind our backs. We just want to be involved.

I feel really bad that Shea’s not going to be able to see much of his grandson as it is.

All I can do is wait and hope things turn out for the better. Nothing more we really can do. As with all things in our lives.